Whether you’re in a relationship or not might not change the fact that you simply don’t enjoy Valentine’s Day. It’s understandable – why make a random day in February such a big deal when you should be either loving the person you’re with well every day or loving yourself and living well every day?
Valid points, but I will make a small case for Valentine’s Day. Although I totally agree that it’s a “hallmark holiday” and is only really in existence for companies to make money, it’s a good opportunity to make a point to spend some time with those you love in between holidays. Whether that means spending time with a significant other, a best friend, or your mom is up to you. Here’s some ideas that can help you take some time to tell those you love that you love them, sans heart-shaped chocolates and teddy bears.
Cook together
Even if this is something you do with the people you love on a regular basis, plan something extra special to cook that you don’t make often. Come up with a menu together, spend time selecting ingredients, and enjoy being in the kitchen. Talk, have some wine, and enjoy the evening!
See a show or visit a museum
Maybe this is a more “typical” Valentine’s Day activity, but it’s a great way to get out of the house during these cold (at least in Chicago) months and see something new that’s not a movie. During winter, many museums in cities have “free days”. Find all of Chicago’s free days here.
Volunteer together
Why spend a day being spoiled when you can do something that’ll benefit another person more? Pick something you both can get passionate about and spend a Saturday helping out somewhere. This website helps you find volunteer opportunities near you based on what you really care about.
Take a class
I know I’ve brought this up before, but these things are so much fun and easy to find on Groupon or TravelZoo. Cooking class, painting class, wine tasting, whatever! Learn something new that you can do together again another time as well!
Are you having a low key or alternative type of Valentine’s Day? What are you doing?
Lydia Jane
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These are all great ideas! I love doing something with my dad on Valentine’s Day, regardless of whether I’m in a relationship when Valentine’s Day rolls around. It’s important to show the ones you love that you care and the gift of time is one of the most precious you can give!
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Totally agree! Hope you have a wonderful time with your dad!
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These are awesome ideas! My boyfriend and I will be going the “cook together” route this year. 🙂
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My husband and I have done that one every year for four years now – we always make steak and watch When Harry Met Sally! Enjoy!
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Valentine’s Day is something we just hang out and not do a thing! I love it!
xo, Jessica || The Petite Diaries
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It’s a great day for indulging in a night in!
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What creative ideas for Valentine’s Day! You’ve given me some new ideas for dates outsdie of Vday even! Love it 🙂
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Wonderful! Enjoy yourself. 🙂
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I love this post! Great ideas for a memorable Valentine’s Day. With a toddler running around, going to a museum or seeing a show with my husband sounds like heaven right now!
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I bet! Hope you get some quality time with your husband this holiday!
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I just love holidays- I’ll prob wear red and cook in 🙂 And enjoy chocolates… Can’t say I’d ever pass up an opportunity to indulge myself with sweets! 🙂
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I don’t either! Especially when it’s chocolate. I’ll find any excuse to get that haha
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I love these ideas! I feel like it is something that everyone can be a part of somehow and it doesn’t have to be super cheesy or romantic either!
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Yeah who says you can’t make Valentine’s Day special for anyone you love!
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I especially like the concert idea 😉 But seriously, great non-traditional ideas. They could be applied anytime throughout the year!
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Definitely! And yes, the concert one I thought you’d enjoy 🙂
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